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Welcome to my intro of "Old Dave" in Phoenix who enjoys caring intimacy, massage and more sensual sexuality with younger women (over 21) who want to explore or enjoy more intimate forms of sensuality. I prefer slim to medium builds not BBW. Merely a matter of personal attraction to specific body types and prefer smaller, natural breasts to caress :(

I offer to share my background and experiences with new friends. 

I have lots of therapeutic and sensual experience including teaching Esalen Massage in a Phoenix swing/polyamory couples group ( that I led years ago with 350 members. I have had strip club gals say they wish their husbands/boyfriends had my kind of touch. I often get "Gee, you know what you're doing" and excellent responses from mostly 20-something gals in the nude-reverse massage parlors of Canada. I am known on various escort-related boards for encouraging men to get in touch with more intimate, caring sensuality than just the usual wham-bam sex.


I was first trained in Esalen at the Minneapolis School of Massage and was even asked to be President of the Minnesota Therapeutic Massage Network. 

No, I am not "God's gift to women" - some will not be attracted to me - but I know from experience many women do enjoy my techniques and I offer to share them with new female friends - as a way of relating to some women more than just the usual dating scene.


I have done couples and individual non-professional sex counseling, learning from and being motivated by Jerry De Haan - a licensed sex therapist in Los Angeles. Now retired, he gave me a car trunk's worth of sold-out his book "Reaching Intimacy"- since I so highly recommended it's sex therapies. Long ago I was active with Human Awareness Institute's Sex, Love and Intimacy extensive worships in Northern California. Founder Stan Dale was a prominent sexologist that helped change many people's lives, including my own.
For those seeking more sexual options, I have introduced escorts and friends to more intimate Tantric positions they say they enjoy and few had yet experienced. I enjoy more a relationship interaction with non-professionals who enjoy sensuality more than escort/companions, or "sugar--daddy" arrangements (which I have never done).
I enjoy the sharing of caring, quality-touch sensual massage (like Esalen) relating to both the soul and body. Only if desired, I also enjoy more intimate sexuality, such as G-spot massage which I have taught to couples. I also own the much-praised Sybian machine which many women have enjoyed with my assistance and interactions.

I have a lovely Frank Lloyd Wright-like home overlooking North Phoenix, complete with a massage room. I lived in Minneapolis, Minnesota for about 40 years until I escaped the cold and snow by moving to Arizona.  

Some of my websites
Esalen Massage - It's so nice to be kneaded: 

Love Touch - Loving touch, both sensual and sexual, is a fundamental need for all humans.

Liberated Christians - Support, Fellowship & Resource CyberCenter for all regardless of Religious Belief, especially Christians overcoming sexual teachings that have no biblical basis.

I have enjoyed exploring sexwork in more liberal Canada. I also have reports from other Canadian cities, but Toronto has been my primary focus for more than ten years.

If my ideas sound interesting,
e-mail me at Send Mail. If the link doesn't work, it is and include "Sensuality" as the subject so I know it's not spam.

Take a chance - you and I are both worth it! 

Travelog: Dave in Minnesota April 2018

Dave lived in Minneapolis before moving to Phoenix to escape the cold and snow many years ago. I played baritone sax in the University of Minnesota Marching Band but had not been back to the campus since. In April 2018 I attended a "Pride of Minnesota" band fundraising dinner in the vast box area on top of the TCF Stadium, that included tours of the impressive band facilities. Very different than in 1969 when we were in the basement of Northrup Auditorium and had to use the football field for practices. Now they have colossal practice rooms for the high-stepping 320-piece band.


Going onto the field, the football team comes out a narrow ramp, but behind it is a huge area where 320 band members line up in formation, coming out for pre-game or half-time shows.


The average high temperature was supposed to be in the 50's, but on the April night that  I was at the stadium, the wind chill was near 0 degrees. Upon my return to Phoenix, it was 100F, so I quickly defrosted. 


In Minneapolis, I also enjoyed the famous Chanhassen Dinner Theater, where I went on dates in my 20s.  I drove 10 miles in snow from the hotel, and scraping off ice and snow on my rental car after the great show reminded me why I moved to Phoenix! 


For a nostalgic look at my formative years, I was also welcomed by the current owners to see my old St. Louis Park home that I bought for $28,000 long ago, and my childhood Richfield home that my parents bought for a mere $7000.  The current owners were delighted to hear more of the history of their homes. 



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Lacy with her friends 

 It’s now been 3 years since Lacy went missing. I hope she is alive and well, and loved by others.




The Professional Dave - Analytical CPA background

Dave's Professional Website

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